Being With
Explore life and faith — together
Being With is for anyone who’s curious about faith or wondering if Christianity has something meaningful to offer them. In this 10-week online small group for New Yorkers, we seek out the sacred simply by paying attention to our lives — and the lives of those around us. Amid the isolation that’s symptomatic of our divided world, we find meaning by building real relationships.
It’s a course for those searching for something deeper. Whether you feel uncertain or curious, disconnected from or hurt by the church, or open to exploring something new with others, there’s space for you, and your experience, here.
Each Being With session is centered on a question that invites the group to reflect on topics like meaning, suffering, and hope. There is no judgment, no wrong answer, and no prescribed path. The only thing you are asked to do is listen to others’ stories — and maybe share your own.
New groups will begin in February 2026. To inquire about joining a Being With group, submit the interest form below.
FAQs
What happens during Being With?
Each 90-minute session begins with a question. For example, I wonder where in your life you find the most meaning? Then we listen to a brief teaching and move on to a group conversation. Participants are encouraged to listen to and openly receive what each person shares. Together, we’ll come to see how our stories are interconnected.
Cohorts are kept to 12 people each. The sessions are facilitated by professionally trained advisors, including Trinity clergy and community.
Who is this for?
Although Being With is an online course, it is intended for participants living in the New York City metro area.
The course will be particularly beneficial to you if:
You are looking to meet new people and find deeper connections with other New Yorkers
You are new to Christianity, grew up in another faith tradition, or consider yourself spiritual but not religious
You grew up in a Christian family, started experiencing doubt, and want a safe space to re-examine your faith
You have big questions about God, Jesus, and what it means to be a Christian in the modern world
What is expected of participants?
We expect participants to commit to attending all 10 sessions of the course. We hold each of these sessions, and the stories shared within them, as sacred. We want to foster community and create spaces built on trust. This is only possible if participants show up consistently.
Will I have to speak at every session?
Yes, but it's only required during the check-in at the start of each session. Otherwise, speaking is optional.
I’m highly skeptical about faith. Is that okay?
Yes, of course. We are not trying to convert you. This is a time to explore and connect with others.
I’ve been hurt by church before. And I’ve seen some Christians wield their faith like a weapon, using it to harm and marginalize others. How do I know this is a safe space for me?
Church should be the one place everyone feels welcome. But churches have often failed to be safe spaces for all God’s people. At Trinity, we believe in the inherent goodness of every part of God’s creation. We believe God sees you, loves you, and delights in you.
In everything we do, we seek the well-being and flourishing of all people. We hope you’ll join us as we work to show the world how expansive God’s love can be.
When will Being With groups take place?
Being With is offered twice a year, beginning in the fall and spring, with afternoon and evening sessions available. The course resumes in February 2026.
How was Being With developed?
Trinity is grateful to the Rev. Dr. Sam Wells and the Rev. Sally Hitchiner of St. Martin-in-the-Fields, London, who originally developed the Being With course and curriculum with their parish. Learn more.
For more information, contact the Faith Formation & Education team at ChristianFormation@trinitychurchnyc.org